Why feeling resentment blocks the energy healing
Recently, a distressed women came in for a consultation. She was of European descent, in her mid 50’s and appeared very tired and void of happiness. She was teary and very upset. “Women don’t like me, and people take advantage of me,” she said. Beneath the pains throughout her body were curses and negative energies.
I had an immediate sense of the reasons behind her hard life. She did not desire to change. She was not monitoring her behaviour and wanted to blame others for her misery. Feeling this energy around her, I suggested that she be open to change… or nobody could help her.
For the healing energy to penetrate, there need to be openness
She responded with “I just want you to work on my pain and nothing else.” I said it would be better for her to go home than for me to move her pain as I’m only interested in bringing about permanent transformation. From my experience, I knew with her attitude that changing the pain would be like pushing through a cement wall! She would take my energy, waste her money and time. She pleaded and said she would try a little to change. I began the session, trusting what she said.
As I read her energy field, she tried to control the healing. She was not open to the information I found and was playing ‘victim’ and still putting the blame on others. I explained that she was making the healing difficult and she needed to let go of the control. She admitted she tried to control her son and her husband. Her husband was negative and treated her disrespectfully, so did her son. She kept in contact with her son every day by phone.
Her 30 years of anger towards her husband, son and others had accumulated a lot of negative karma.Β I wanted her to know there was a message in her pain and suffering. You are not getting the message!! I could not have said it more plainly. I was communicating to her openly and she did not want to hear it.
It was hard work. The pain reduced while she was on the table but when she got up, her pain increased. When pain increases in a session I have found there is a lot of negative emotion stored in a person’s body. She needed to ask for forgiveness. Forgiveness for blaming others. Forgiveness for sending psychic attacks to them. I worked through a forgiveness exercise. The pain receded. When she left, she said, “please don’t be angry with me.” I said, “I’m not angry at all. I am the creator of my life as well, and I attracted you into my life.” I always ponder that after experiences that are not uplifting. I think about it and plan how to create better into the future.
Since I regularly ‘move mountains’ for people and bring about life-changing healings, I contemplated why I had attracted this woman. The answers came to me. Another person’s face came to me, someone that had sent negative energy because she associated with others who were negative and blaming. I realised I was still connected into that energy. There was a match to the energy of this previous association. Energy is like a magnet. Like always attracts like. It seemed that I had a ‘leak’ in my energy field and I needed to find my message.
You can’t make everyone like you
No matter how hard we try, we can’t win every popularity contest. I have now no tolerance for negativity in my life, my work and the people around me. I let people know my standards. Some people don’t want to change and want to blame others, and that is fine with me, I choose to not be connected with them as the energy affects my life.
I know too well what it does to people’s health, finances, relationships, and life. I also know that I have to become the energy of the people and things I want to attract.
My forthcoming book ‘Feel and Follow’* is about ‘feeling’ for what’s important to us. Writing this book and practicing the principles has given me access to energy, thoughts, and solutions like never before.
I have become a sponge for energy, and that can cause problems if I compromise my feelings and energy. If I don’t feel calm, I disconnect from situations and people. I welcome in people and situations that help me feel light and supportive. This protects me, Forensic Healing, my writing, my healings and allows me to expand.
There is a message for all of us. If you do what you have always done, you will get what you have always got. Time to see the messages, embrace change and have more awareness of the energies around us. The universe is sending you messages, offering opportunities for you to be even more inspirational. Go and be GREAT!!
Video of a woman who spent her entire life with resentment
Blessings and love,
Marisa β₯
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Hi Marisa,
I really loved that you spoke to the client and advised that the healing wasn’t possible without her co-operation. It’s a timely reminder for me – As an ‘energy alchemist’ it’s also ok to walk away from a client or to say “I can’t help you unless…..”. I can see why you do this & how it helps sustain you as well.
So inspired by this… Honesty, Integrity & Commitment to healing can also mean saying ‘no’.
Love Alana xx
I don’t believe so much in running away from negative energy as much as I believe that without those people with negative energy one never learns equanimity. They are here to teach. One should attempt to love them without connecting to those negative energies. Also one has to be aware that many times we see in others what we are ourselves. Be aware that if you throw away the baby you throw the water. Balance, forgiveness and compassion is the answer. Be aware of your boundaries so that you don’t become a victim.
Yes people who are negative do teach us. Finding the message in why you attracted negativity will change patterns and outcomes. People who have been abused end up in patterns of negativity and need to choose patterns of nurturing to heal themselves. Yes they need to love themselves more and thank the negative person for teaching them that.
Hi, Karen here, Yes as the Buddhists say, you create all your experiences, so called good and bad alike They say, welcome the Bad as they are opportunities to clear out old karmas ( things you have created in the past,, even past life times.). This is good advise to “blamers.Love Love and more Lovexxxxx
They can welcome bad experiences and attract more of them Karen! For me, I like Marisa’s new thinking of learning but embracing choice. Like Marisa says in her freeing women teachings, I choose to move from sacrificial conditioning of our race. Rather than going head-on with karma, we create choices about who we work, play and live with. The lessons come with time but we can call in more of the things we desire. I’m seeing this in my life and I’m so thankful. Love and light, Jenni
I like your thinking Jenni π
You could be right Jenni
I have reached my brick wall and I am ready to use a jack hammer. I am ready to remove toxic relationships and receive new friends that are inspiring. I am ready to transform and improve my thoughts
and values where I can express who I am but first I need to create that relationship with myself.
Thank You Marisa,
For sharing your story, it helped me to recognize in me where I need to look at myself. I have looked deeply as to why I have attracted those energies as well. What a blessing, and a learning curve for growth. Thank You georgia
Thank you all for your feedback … I just love that it is a universal law and we know are learning them very well!! Mxxxxx
Totally relate Marisa. I was a sponge for years and didn’t know it. Still have to be mindful in this regard to keep my field in tact.
using this quality is better than quantity approach i will be running out of friends real quick! thanks for the wake up call. i will be savouring my one favourite relationship from now on and building on some more
Great Amy – you are opening the door now to more positive relationships as now you will have only good energy around you π
never read anything like this
you have changed my outlook on life
looking forward to the changes
THANK YOU!!
Thank you Merinda ….since everything begins with energy I have come to learn that emotions are the most powerful source of energy … Blessings to you Mxx
Oh wow. I feel exactly like that woman sometimes!. Thanks so much for this beautiful message.
Hi Delilah …. the great thing about you is that you can own your behaviour ..That’s always the first step to change π Blessings Mxxxx