Did you know that the energy of those around you influences your everyday experiences? Each moment in your life is shaped by energies originating from various sources—people, places, and within yourself.

It was during my manicure appointment today that I was reminded of this concept once again. My manicurist, Kim, was engaging in lively conversation, and we shared snippets of our lives, including a light-hearted inquiry about my “childbearing” status. I playfully replied with my usual response, “Yes, I have a mama’s boy,” referring to my beloved cat, Warnie.

The Impact of Others’ Energy

Kim recently moved to Australia from Vietnam. When I asked if she was living with anyone, she unfolded a distressing tale about her previous living situation. She detailed the unfair treatment from her Chinese housemate, which escalated to a crisis when she had to leave after her belongings were stolen and the police got involved.

Although Kim’s ordeal happened five months ago, the lingering energy from that experience still affected her. As she recounted her story, I could almost feel the weight of her negative energy pressing down on me. I instinctively took deep breaths, trying to dispel the emotional heaviness stemming from her traumatic account.

In that moment, I sensed a release of negative energy from Kim as she remarked on experiencing cold shivers coursing through her body. I could perceive that she had been burdened by a lingering curse from her former flatmate, which she confirmed by sharing her ongoing string of misfortunes since their altercation.

The Cycle of Energy

The energies we encounter are constantly recycled within our personal fields. When you’re around negative or controlling individuals, it becomes evident why disruptions, mishaps, and challenges seem to arise.

Many people intuitively sense the energy of others and how it may influence their well-being. The key question is how to assess the extent of this impact on your life and situations.

My expertise lies in deciphering energy dynamics and identifying the root causes of negative conditions—a concept central to Forensic Healing. This approach allows you to become an investigator of energy fields, which led me to create a list of the seven most detrimental emotions impacting us from external sources or ourselves. This list encourages a reassessment of your relationships and affiliations.

The Unawareness of the Emotionally Unstable

Individuals who are emotionally unstable can unknowingly project harmful energy, especially when their negativity lingers. Such people often blame their misfortunes on others and refuse to accept accountability for the chaos they attract into their lives, justifying their emotions while perpetuating destructive behavior.

1. Competition / Jealousy

Those consumed by competition prioritize victory above all else, fostering win-lose scenarios to elevate their status. Their desire for your failure can bring misfortunes that impede your progress.

This energy can manifest as obstacles in your career, including dwindling clients, sales issues, or other financial setbacks. I’ve witnessed individuals swiftly transition from prosperity to loss when envious people covet their success.

Jealous individuals typically possess low self-esteem, judging their value against others. This negative sentiment can become a curse, prompting me to distance myself from certain individuals. As the founder of Forensic Healing, I have encountered various manifestations of this curse, including a young girl who lost her hair due to her aunt’s envy. Upon releasing the curse, her hair quickly grew back.

2. Control / Manipulation

When someone seeks to control or manipulate you, they often employ subtle tactics to achieve their goals. By weakening and isolating you, they lead you to accept their limited options, causing you to suppress your instincts and entangle your energy with theirs. Their hidden agendas reveal themselves through inconsistent words and actions.

Their manipulative behavior can compel you to comply with their demands, even when it contradicts your true desires or instincts. They instill fear or leverage emotional manipulation, keeping you dependent on them.

This type of existence restricts your potential and hinders personal and professional growth, drawing in similar people or situations that stifle your freedom and progress.

3. Blame / Guilt

When individuals place blame on others and expect you to be responsible for their feelings, they infuse your energy field with destructive guilt. This leads to compounded mistakes and the attraction of situations that seemingly punish you unjustly.

4. Disrespect / Ingratitude

When someone shows you disrespect, they fail to recognize your worth or acknowledge your contributions. Their disregard can lead others to treat you similarly, attracting ungrateful individuals into your life. You might feel invisible, as if your value goes unnoticed.

5. Judgment

People who are harshly judgmental towards themselves often project that criticism onto you. Their self-criticism manifests as judgment toward others, creating a cycle of negativity.

When this judgmental energy is directed your way, it can diminish your self-expression, prompting you to hide your true essence to avoid scrutiny. Being around these individuals can leave you feeling depleted and anxious, leading to further encounters with those who critique you. This cycle prevents you from sharing your thoughts and limits your happiness.

6. Worry / Fear

When someone worries about you, they inadvertently amplify their fears, increasing the likelihood of negative outcomes. Focusing on worst-case scenarios sends a message that you are incapable of managing your life effectively, fostering distrust in the universe.

Persistent fearful thoughts obstruct positive possibilities. This fear-driven mindset can inadvertently manifest more negative outcomes.

Media outlets often exploit this tendency by disseminating alarming stories that perpetuate anxiety and disempowerment. When someone expresses worry or pity for you, encourage them to envision positive alternatives, thereby enhancing the overall energy and attracting better outcomes.

7. Anger / Resentment

Individuals who harbor anger often seek relief by transferring their unaddressed emotions onto others. When they channel their resentment toward you, it can lead to a series of negative circumstances affecting your well-being.

Anger has physical manifestations, causing discomfort or pain, as if being struck by unseen daggers. It can result in accidents or misfortunes, drawing more negativity into your life.

That anger can also invite further adverse energies from others, creating a cycle of negativity that hangs over you like a storm cloud, fostering feelings of depression and despair.

Positive Emotional States to Foster Growth

Protect yourself from negative energies by making proactive choices that reflect the person you wish to become. An essential step is to surround yourself with uplifting individuals, as your experiences will reflect your circle.

Eight Empowering Emotional States

1. Unconditional love
2. Acceptance
3. Non-judgment
4. Gratitude
5. Appreciation
6. Confidence
7. Trust
8. Support

Experiencing these emotional states elevates your sense of safety and peace. They raise your confidence levels and act as a shield against lingering negative energies.

Such positive emotions enhance your overall energy and facilitate progress in your life, attracting like-minded individuals and creating space for wonderful experiences to unfold.

Kind-hearted individuals contribute positively to your life by nurturing loving and supportive thoughts about you.

Cleanse Your Energy with a Forensic Healing Workshop or Online Course

Just as you tidy your home, your energy also requires purification. Releasing past emotional bonds, traumas, and negative beliefs from your energy can liberate you, as if shedding heavy chains that bind you.

This renewal allows you to embrace fresh experiences and new beginnings.

With blessings and love always,

Marisa ♥